What is Love ??

What is love? Can love be defined? Some say true love is that which cannot be defined. Some say true love does not exist. But now what is the difference between love n True love?. Why this term at all 'True Love' . Isnt love supposed to be true ?? Some believe in Love , some do not believe. Some falsely claim that they can love and they know how to love. Let me ask you a question, if you truely love that person, why can't you define it? You do not know what you feel for that person , you do not know what that person feels for it.. Then how can you say it isnt a crush nor an infatuation... Isnt 'LOVE' an enhanced form of friendship.
Cannot friends love each other. Cannot family members love each other.. There are certain things common in all. You trust them , you trust ur true lover, true friends and family members. You feel for all. You try to take care of all of them. They help you whenever u need them. Most important. You adjust to each of them all. You fight with all of them, but ultimately you never leave them. They all have a place in your heart.. You want to work for their happiness.
Can love be selfish??
Can love be about selflessness? Can love mean to just do nothing while the other does everything?
Does love mean that the other person ignores u whenever he/she feels like and u take it all with a smile..?
Does love succeed , if you do not try to understand one other , just be ur selfish selves , want to be alone , think abt your own problems and leave the other person suffering his/her own problems. Isnt love about helping each other improve to be better persons? Not about helping each other with their problems , isnt about discussing things out so that it works for both of us, not just a single one of us and leave the other with his/her own problems and dont give a damm??
True love is selfless I believe... No possession , just respecting everyone's differences , adjusting to differences which are conflicting, learning about each other , helping each other to be better persons. It is about helping , supporting people in times of depression . It is about sharing happiness of both. It is about giving personal space . It about atleast the other person knowing that you want that space.. Selfless will give you what u seek , but all you need is to ask for it. Selfless love will always understand ur problems and try to support you in everyway possible. Selfless love just wants your happiness but Selfless love needs to learn to understand the differences.
It isnt about dependence , it is a willful responsibility that one wants and receives . It is mutual 50-50%. Friendship , family n all . It is all willful responsibility. If you dont want it , you can always leave. Just ask to leave and selfless love will let you leave...