One thing that I have frequently noticed amongst girls are their ever-changing moods. These mood swings usually have to be borne by the guys, especially when in a relationship. The question arises is that whether the girls are justified with showcasing such a behaviour in context of a relationship. Understanding a girl is easy but handling her moods is a daunting task for a guy. It requires a lot of comprises on part of the guy. They have to let go of their male ego, go to lengths to pamper the girl and follow her commands. Girls suffer from various phases and the guy must be required to figure and understand each of these mood swings, all on his own. It is often said that girls display a greater sense of maturity than guys. It might be true given the fact that guys sacrifice too much for a girl, for her moods. Guys are expected to be unemotional beings with only sexual desires. Quite the contrary, research has shown that guys are more emotional than girls. Sorry, I guess my statement might have hurt the male ego but it is true.
Girls want guys to accept them for what they are but are they ready to accept the guys for what they are. A big 'No'!!!!....There will always be shortcomings in a guy which the girl would want him to overcome.
I think girls should give due recognition to the guys for all the sacrifices they make and guys must learn to define a boundary beyond which not to pamper the girl and let her be on her own and help herself.
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